In Memory of

Hugh

Ernest

Walling
From
Dave and Mary Ellen Devlin
Date
Saturday, October 26, 2019
Message
Always in our thoughts and prayers.
From
ACV AUCTIONS
Date
Tuesday, October 22, 2019
Message
Our deepest sympathies and prayers for you and your family.
From
Dona Asciak & Larry Fletcher
Date
Saturday, October 19, 2019
Message
Kathy, We are so very very deeply sorry for your loss Kathy and were deeply struck to learn of this. We feel fortunate to have been able to meet and spend some time with you and Hugh in Mexico, and his contagious laugh and joie de vivre will always be remembered.
From
Shannon Sarbo
Date
Wednesday, October 16, 2019
Message
Rachel, I was so sorry to hear of your Father's passing. I am thinking of you and your family as you grieve his loss.
From
Bob & Elise Daragon & Family
Date
Monday, October 14, 2019
Message
Remember Hughie will be easy - He was truly one of a kind!
From
Glen and Darlene Deane
Date
Monday, October 14, 2019
Message
Cathy, we are so grateful to you and Hugh to welcoming us to your up North neighborhood. We will miss Hugh’s sense of humor, crazy outfits, and infectious laughter.
From
David & Diana Slates
Date
Monday, October 14, 2019
Message
Kathy, Our deepest sympathies and prayers for you and your family. We will also miss him dearly. Truly a wonderful person and friend.
From
Rick and Brenda Bowers
Date
Sunday, October 13, 2019
Message
Our deepest sympathies to you, Cathy, and your entire family. Hugh's huge personality and fun loving spirit will be forever missed.
From
Josette & Chris Kett
Date
Sunday, October 13, 2019
Message
From
John Payne
Date
Saturday, October 12, 2019
Message
Dear Walling family, My condolences on the passing of Mr. Walling. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Sincerely, John Payne
From
Mike L’heureux
Date
Saturday, October 12, 2019
Message
Wally & Family My condolences to you and your family. Your dad was a great man. It was a pleasure having him as our coach and all the good memories we made. I am deeply sorry for your loss!
From
Kathy and Fred Cowlin
Date
Saturday, October 12, 2019
Message
Matt, Ellie and family: So sorry to hear of the passing of your dear dad. The obituary was lovely and told us a lot about the wonderful man, father and grandpa that he was. Wishing you happy rainbows of memories and experiences in your lives. Sincerely, Kathy and Fred Cowlin
From
Donna & Gary Meunier, Don Badder
Date
Friday, October 11, 2019
Message
With deepest sympathy.
From
Troy Maleyko
Date
Friday, October 11, 2019
Message
Wally & Family- Our deepest condolences to your family. He was a very good man who lived life to the fullest. It was an honour to have spent some great time with him at the family cottage. He will always be remembered ... The Maleyko Family
From
Jennifer Jones
Date
Friday, October 11, 2019
Message
Rachel and family, I’m so sorry for your loss
From
Tim, Polly and Amelia Behmlander
Date
Thursday, October 10, 2019
Message
Hugh was a wonderful person. We are truly sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
From
Fran Flater
Date
Thursday, October 10, 2019
Message
Cathy.. there are no words.. Just know that your friends are here for you as you and Hughie were always there for us God Bless
From
Josette Broad
Date
Wednesday, October 09, 2019
Message
I met Hughie for the first time when I was 7. I remember thinking he was such a nice guy, and that never changed. We will always remember the fun family get togethers you hosted. He will be truly missed. Josette and Bob Broad
From
Paul Gignac
Date
Tuesday, October 08, 2019
Message
Shock and sadness overwhelmed us when we first heard of Hughies passing. Still hard to comprehend. But, as with all the best people that are in our lives, we are left with wonderful memories of a fun loving, big hearted man. We will always remember the generosity extended by Hugh and Cathy when they threw the bashes following the family golf tourneys, and especially being incredible hosts for our Mom and Dad’s 25th anniversary party. So kind! Every time Hughie comes to mind it will definitely bring a smile to our faces. Love to you Cathy and family. Paul & Jocelyn
From
Barbara Beattie
Date
Tuesday, October 08, 2019
Message
Dear Cathy and Family Thoughts and Prayers are with you all on the passing of your Beloved Husband Father and Grandfather, Hugh.... Sincerely Barbara M....... Beattie
From
Aunt Rosalie and Uncle Ernie
Date
Tuesday, October 08, 2019
Message
Words cannot express our sorrow at this time. Hughie was such a great person! His love of his family and friends was always evident. Cathy and Hughie were the greatest hosts for the Monforton clan after their golf outings and our 25th wedding anniversary party. How generous of you. Our prayers and love are with you Cathy, and your wonderful family. Rosalie and Ernie.
From
John H Kaiser
Date
Monday, October 07, 2019
Message
Angie and I would like to extend our sincerest condolences to Cathy and the Walling family. It is hard for me to recall how many years I have known Hughie and enjoyed his friendship. We first met when he began working in the US and then we both enjoyed being retired and able to golf on weekdays. Like everyone, It is even harder to realize we have lost such a great guy. The golf stories would fill a best selling book. Hughie was always Up! and ready to enjoy your company. He had some of the best schemes you could imagine. It goes without saying that he will be missed by everyone, family and friends. John and Angie Kaiser
From
Dan Murrell
Date
Monday, October 07, 2019
Message
Wally, Very sorry to hear of your loss. Keeping your family in my thoughts. Please, if you ever need anything, just let me know. Dan
From
Russ and Jo-Anne Grozelle
Date
Monday, October 07, 2019
Message
We have known Hughie and Cathy for over fifty years. Hearing the news of Hugh’s passing has broken all of our hearts. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Cathy and the family. Hugh’s cooking skills at the cottage, his sense of humour, his genuine kindness and his smile make him unforgettable. As we write this message, our tears have not stopped flowing. We love you and we miss you already Hugh.
From
Jan Monforton
Date
Sunday, October 06, 2019
Message
Cathy and Family- Doug and I were so shocked and saddened to learn of Hughie's passing. I can only think of him with a smile, for all the joy and fun he projected with his personality---definitely a guy who loved life and lived it well. We are so very sorry for your loss, and wish you peace and comfort during this sad time. Love and hugs to you all-
From
Mary Ann McLean
Date
Sunday, October 06, 2019
Message
Cathy and family. Our deepest sympathy to you and the family. May the memories you have help through this difficult time.🌺
From
Ann-Margaret Crowder
Date
Sunday, October 06, 2019
Message
Cathy I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers at this time of profound sadness . Sincerely Ann-Margaret Crowder
From
Mary King
Date
Sunday, October 06, 2019
Message
I have known Rachel and her family what feels like my entire life. Cathy and Hugh were always so welcoming to me, even letting me always swim at their place when they weren't home! Much less when they got groceries for me to have their kitchen always stocked and ready for others. What a caring man Hugh showed everyone he was. I send my deepest thoughts and prayers as I cant be there Saturday but am sending my stand in, Dr King. Keep your chin up, to everyone who knew him, as this is how angels can see us smiling. Love, Mary
From
Susie Byrne
Date
Sunday, October 06, 2019
Message
Cathy and family, we were so extremely shocked and saddened to hear of Hughie's passing. Immediately, fond memories of times spent at your place on Villa Borghese came to mind. So many laughs and good times were possible because of yours and Hughie's incredible generosity and amazing knack for hosting. Even when we gathered for more somber times, Hughie's smile was always something we could count on to lift our spirits and brighten the room. I personally counted on Hughie to always give me a big hug anytime we were together and he never disappointed. We pray that all the wonderful memories you hold near and dear will bring comfort and will continue to fill your hearts with Hughie's love over the following days, weeks and beyond. With love and prayers Susie and Steve Byrne
From
Aunt Maxine
Date
Sunday, October 06, 2019
Message
Dear Cathy and family. So very sorry for your loss. Hughie was a great guy and a great host. Remembering all the great times we had at your cottage. You are all in my prayers. Love Aunt Maxine.
From
Paul Huggard
Date
Sunday, October 06, 2019
Message
Only fond memories of Hugh exist. Not only were their doors always open but so was his heart. Always someone you took to heart and held dearly. He was wise and genuine in all he did. So many wonderful fun memories whenever we were with Cathy and Hugh. My deepest sympathies to Cathy and the entire family. We have lost a giant of a man. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless. I bid you peace. Paul Huggard
From
Kelly & Chris Moynahan
Date
Sunday, October 06, 2019
Message
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this most difficult time. May you rest peacefully & may the memory of the beautiful way you lived never be forgotten.
From
Elver & Heidi Peruzzo
Date
Sunday, October 06, 2019
Message
My friend died suddenly in the arms of his beloved wife who desperately tried to revive him. This breaking news shattered the very soul of family and friends, not only from the image of that scene painted indelibly on our minds, but also from the memory of who he was and how implicitly he captured our hearts with his generosity and humour. His name was Hugh Walling. My wife and I have known Hugh and Cathy for over fifty years, sharing many moments of our lives together: 'free fall' university days, weddings, babies, new homes, pool parties, graduations, family deaths and now we are left with his ultimate departure. As a couple, there was commitment to family and friends: organized trips, barbecues at the cottage, and dedication as the executor of a friend's family in dealing with that friend's last will. To say that we are heartbroken is the very least emotional upset. We are devastated and will be for a long time yet. The only consolation we have are the signs of his presence all around us: a butterfly lands on your shoulder and it remains there even after you stare at it, a morning dove lands on your porch railing and it turns and watches you with no intention of fluttering away, a bloom suddenly appears in an unexpected place in your yard, a tree branch falls in front of you right at the moment when you have that person in mind, a person offers you his favourite drink, a man walks by wearing a bright coloured T-shirt. These are reminders, but are they? Somehow we take some of what Hugh was and transpose it to common occurrences which then become signs of his omnipresence. At the moment of his death, the skies were grey and a few hours later a full rainbow appeared giving hope to family and friends that he is still among us in the vitality of colour that he always sported. Hugh knew how to turn struggle into peace, sadness into laughter, and now temporary into eternal. There are no words left that can replace visible and invisible tears, only a pledge to let his memory live on. Death is not proud today, not at all, because we have reminders of Hugh Walling everywhere that his spirit is alive, vibrant, pulsating and inspiring.