In Memory of

Tom

“Murf”

Murphy
From
Scott Pohanka
Date
Tuesday, May 12, 2020
Message
Rosemary....I apologize for sending this out later, but wanted to still express my deepest sympathy to you and the family. Tom was a man that other men (friends, team mates, coworkers) looked to for direction and often used him as a model for their decisions as well as a friend to share experiences with. I certainly did and am a better person for my time with him. Although separated as we took different paths, it was always a pleasure to visit him at work and try to catch up in the few minutes we had. From personal experience, I know it's a whole new world currently and there's no opportunity to share our stories and emotions....perhaps soon. May friends and family provide some solace as time attempts to heal.
From
Jill MacKay
Date
Tuesday, April 07, 2020
Message
Sending my heartfelt condolences to Tom's family, both near and far. May you find comfort in one another during this time of mourning. Jill MacKay (Ottawa)
From
Tom Bennett
Date
Tuesday, April 07, 2020
Message
On March 2nd I lost a dear friend of 65 years, “Murf” left us all suddenly that day bringing great sadness to his family, and vast number of friends and acquaintances. The news of his passing weighed heavily on me, and I couldn’t help but think of the length of time we’ve know each other and the life we had together. From the time I met him at the age of about 5, the next 18 years of our life were spent in constant contact building a lasting friendship, we were joined very early by two great friends, Ann Margret, and Tim, and together the 4 of us had a childhood that a Hollywood script writer couldn’t capture, we ruled the world and enjoyed each other’s company immensely as true friends during those halcyon days of the late 50’s & 60’s learning of life as we grew up together. Knowing someone for 65 years isn’t uncommon, remaining good friends with them for that length is rare. While time and distance, reduced greatly our constant contact over the last 45 years, it didn’t affect the friendship, on every occasion we had to meet, a beat was never skipped, we were back together in time, friends again with no awkward pauses or lulls in conversation, and when the 4 of us were together we once again ruled the world and often had to pause to catch our breath from laughter. I will truly miss “MURF” just knowing he was there was always comforting. My condolences to you Rosemary and your children & grandchildren, I can feel the sadness you must all have as I’m certain he was as good a partner, father & grandfather, as he was a friend to so many of us. The Roseland Rats will ride again “Murf” Rest in Peace, we will all meet again.
From
Bill and Mary Macklem
Date
Tuesday, April 07, 2020
Message
Such a sad time to lose a great guy and good friend. Murf may be gone but he will never be forgotten. We are sure he's in Heaven booking tee times for the annual Turkey Open and waiting to greet all of us at the pearly gates when our times come. Thanks for the great memories, Murf. In honor of you, we will have a "shot for the boys."
From
Gary and Sharon Kelly
Date
Tuesday, April 07, 2020
Message
So very sorry to read of Tom’s passing. I remember him as the supportive big brother to his sisters and a cherished son to his parents. I am sure that wonderful trait continued as a husband, father and grandfather. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
From
Diane Serra
Date
Tuesday, April 07, 2020
Message
Dear Janice, I am so sorry for your loss. It's so hard to lose a sibling. You are in my thoughts. Diane (Meloche) Serra
From
Tim and Maureen Tyler
Date
Tuesday, April 07, 2020
Message
Our most sincere condolences to Rosemary and all the Murphy family... Remembering a very kind and gentle man. Tim & Maureen Tyler
From
Judy
Date
Monday, April 06, 2020
Message
Mark & Carley & Murphy family So very sorry to hear of the sudden passing of your Father and dear Grandfather of Dryden and Isla. He was clearly a wonderful man. Mark, may you see your father’s wisdom in all that you do and recognize his kindness in your own heart. Please know I share in your sadness as you say goodbye. I know you loved this man dearly and will miss him always. Keeping you in my prayers ~Judy
From
Frances Soulliere
Date
Monday, April 06, 2020
Message
Dear Rosemary and Jan So very sorry to hear about Tom’s death. I know his passing will leave a huge void for you and your family. I wish you strength at this difficult time. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
From
Sue Kerr
Date
Monday, April 06, 2020
Message
Jan, Mardie, Kathy. So sorry to hear of your brothers passing. A Roseland legacy. Thinking of and praying for you and your families
From
Brenda and Dennis Balzer
Date
Monday, April 06, 2020
Message
So sorry to hear about Tom's passing. He will surely be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
From
Dr Mike & Mary MacKinnon,LaSalle.
Date
Monday, April 06, 2020
Message
What a wonderful,kind and caring person.We mainly knew Tom through his work at Dan Kanes dealership for a great many years but every contact with him was always so pleasurable.He treated us not just as long standing customers but more as personal friends.Our prayers and condolences go out his whole family.He will truly be missed.
From
Gil DeGuire
Date
Sunday, April 05, 2020
Message
Rosemary, Janice and Family. Please accept our condolences for your loss. Take care. Val (Theaker) DeGuire and Family
From
Sarge and Vicki Pawlowski
Date
Sunday, April 05, 2020
Message
So sorry for your loss. Murf was such a kind and caring person. Always happy and enjoyed life so much. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family. Rest in Peace Tom
From
Lauzz
Date
Sunday, April 05, 2020
Message
Rosemary and Family , very sad , so sorry for your loss.
From
Tom & Steph
Date
Sunday, April 05, 2020
Message
My sincerest condolences to Rosemary, Mike, Erin, Mark and the entire Murphy family. I was deeply saddened to hear of your dad's passing. You're in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Steph & Tom
From
Tim Averill
Date
Sunday, April 05, 2020
Message
Dear Murf: Since I first arrived on Roseland in 1958 until our last bike ride, you and I have been on many wonderful adventures together: The Roseland Rats and Bennville Bugle; the backyard rink and clubhouse; Grade 10 Chess club; Grade 12 L/M (and we know who that got you); Mosport, Mont Tremblant and Watkins Glen; weekly Club night; Turkey Open golf; Sunday night poker bbwhere is Spot?); best men at our respective weddings; over 35 years of ski trips; family camping trips; over 40 years of Ranger Lake; Toronto bike tours; wine tours; and sailing voyages. So enjoy the new road (I know you'll be driving)...we'll be fine. To Ro, the kids and grandkids, Jan, Mardie and Kath; thanks for sharing Murf with me. Ace
From
Dennis Lussier
Date
Sunday, April 05, 2020
Message
My deepest sympathies go out Rose and your family. Murf was a class man, good friend and a long time Teammate who always calm, no matter the circumstance. Over the years , you lose touch with people but always remember games, plays and teammates. I have sat with Murph many times having a drink or two and exchanging stories. I am proud to call Murf my friend and great teammate, who never lost his cool, composure and always was a Team first guy. May this terrible time pass quickly for the Murphy family. You are in my thoughts and Prayers.
From
Nelly Tedesco and Enzo Pappini
Date
Sunday, April 05, 2020
Message
We are saddened to hear of Tom's unexpected passing. We were customers and Tom always took good care of us, providing exceptional customer service. Our deepest sympathies to the family during this most difficult time. Wishing you peace to bring you comfort and loving memories to treasure forever. Sincerely, Nelly & Enzo
From
Jim Gomes
Date
Sunday, April 05, 2020
Message
To Rose, Mark and family, I was shocked to learn of the passing of this wonderful man—husband, dad, and grandpa. Please accept my condolences on your loss. As a teammate of Tom's, I'll always remember him as a calm, steading force. Though he loved to compete, I never saw him lose his cool. Tom got along with everybody, and everybody liked "Murf." I never heard anyone say a bad word about him. How many of us can say that. He will be missed by all who knew him. Jim Gomes
From
Kristen Sherlock
Date
Sunday, April 05, 2020
Message
I'm so sorry to hear about Murf's passing. Much hugs to his family during this terrible time. love from Kristen
From
Nancy MacKay-Dietrich
Date
Sunday, April 05, 2020
Message
To the entire Murphy family, We are so sad to hear of Tom’s tragic passing this week. You are all in our hearts and prayers right now. May God send you comfort and fortitude to carry you through. Much love, Nancy, Tim, Claire and Ella 💕
From
Kathy Sanders
Date
Sunday, April 05, 2020
Message
Rosemary & Erin, my deepest sympathies during this extremely hard time. You are both in my heart and thoughts as you proceed day by day. Kathy Sanders
From
Chris Burston
Date
Sunday, April 05, 2020
Message
We are crushed to hear of Tom's passing. The memory of his humour and spirit will stay with us always. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of your families at this difficult time. Chris, Isabelle, Justin and Emma Burston.
From
Linda Turner Proctor
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
Dear Marg , Derrick and family , I was so very sad to read of Tom’s passing . Such a kind and gentle man , full of laughter . A great friend to many . Please know that I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers 💕 Linda
From
JOHN and ELAINE FOX
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
Rosemary, Mike, Erin, Mark and Families, we wish our sincerest condolences on Murf's passing. Murf as truly one of a kind, greatly respected and a friend of all who knew him. He will be sorely missed. John and Elaine Fox
From
Janine LeBlanc
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
Dear Rosemary and family, I am deeply sorry for the loss of your husband, father and grandfather. I will always remember "the Turkeys" as a wonderful group of men who enjoyed lifelong friendships and loyalties. It comes as no surprise that he attended almost all your children's and grandchildren's events.
From
Kathleen warren
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
Rosemary, Janice, Margie, Kathy, Mrs Murphy and all your families - I was so shocked and saddened when I hear this today. I remember Tom so well - Mt Carmel onwards - and booking him recently in my professional life. Always looking out for the "girls" in the neighbor hood - and all our friends - taking care of your mom - your sisters - and all the great Murphy family. Great memories! Kath Warren
From
Tony & Cathy Pupatello
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
Rosemary and family... So deeply sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. Know we are thinking of you. Tony & Cathy Pupatello and family
From
Dan and Cheryl Russell
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
Dear Murphy Family we are so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. The Saints have lost a terrific guy.I'm sure all members of the family miss him dearly. Condolences from all the members of the Russell family.
From
Erik Van Cauteren
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
Dear Rosemary, Erin and family We heard the sad news about your loss and we would like to express our sincere condolences and deepest sympathy. We also wish you much strenght and support in these difficult times. Linda and Erik Oetingen, Belgium
From
Bruce and Patsy
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
Dear Margie , Derrick and the Murphy Family, Our sincerest and heartfelt condolences on the loss of Tom. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your families at this difficult time.
From
Brian Boyd
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
So sad to hear about what happened to Tom. Even though I haven't seen the two of you since we left St. Clair College. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
From
Kathleen Sturba
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
Rosemary and the Murphy family, Sending you love, thoughts, and prayers at this time.
From
Don St Pierre
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
My deepest sympathy goes out to the whole family. I had the pleasure to work with Tom for 33 years, he was a caring and any body that needed help he was there. He would always look forward to going to his cabin.
From
Harold and Ann-Margaret Crowder
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
Rosemary and all the family There are no words that can offer consolation at this time. We are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers as you make this journey of profound sadness. Tom will always be remembered as a gentle good man XXOO Ann-Margaret and Harold Crowder
From
David kane
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
I’m so sorry Rose and I don’t know what to say but I’m very very sorry and so sad. I worked with Murf for over 40 years back at Kane Hickey in the mid 70s downtown until 2018 when he retired from Dan Kane Chev. Murf always treated everyone with respect and in those 40 plus years I can’t think of anyone of our employees or customers that didn’t say the same thing. Lots of great times over the years from all the dealerships activities Golfing up in Northern Michigan he never forget the sambuca and of course all the Christmas parties. Again my condolences to you and your family. Jennifer @ David Kane we are thinking about you And of course GO HABS
From
Susan and Joe Piazza
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
Sending our heartfelt condolences to you all - we remember Tom fondly and your loving family during this difficult time. Peace be with all of you - Love, Joe and Sue
From
Jim Stonehouse
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
Condolences. Our hearts are with you. Such a great guy and dedicated husband and father. Peace and love.
From
Arnie Blaine
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
Dear Rose and family my deepest condolences on the passing of Tom , a great guy, a good teamate and a good friend whenever you needed him. I remember when we were in a big bball tournament in Collingwood , Tom told me he couldn't make it and then in the middle of the night he shows up after driving 6 hours after work cause he thought he'd left me in the lurch, that was Tom, always there. My thoughts and prayers are with you . Arnie Blaine
From
Greg and Lois Bebbington
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
We wanted to send our sympathies to all your family- Hope that your happy memories will help you through this difficult time.
From
Gary & Rosemary Norman
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
Dear Rosemary, Mrs. Murphy, Jan, Margie, Kathy and families: Our deepest sympathy at this very sad passing of Tom. Such a shock and at such a difficult time. We are so sorry, we can't be there to give a hug. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Tom was the elusive lone male among all us girls when we were growing up and we always looked up to him. He was always protective and adored his younger sisters. We have many fond memories of trips and playing in pool and get togethers way back in the day. Again, we are thinking of all of you at this difficult time and hope to be able to get together in person soon. Rosemary and Gary Norman and family.
From
Carol Jones (Renaud)
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
Dear Rosemary and family: Deepest sympathy on your loss I have so many fond memories of the times Chris and I spent with Murf and the Turkeys. So much fun. So many memories. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
From
Kirsty
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
Dear Erin I am so sorry to hear of your Dad’s passing. My thoughts are with you and your family!
From
Linda Turner Proctor
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
Dear Rosemary and family , I was deeply saddened to read of Tom’s passing . He was such a gentle , fun loving guy .Your memories will give you peace and comfort during this very sad time . Please know that I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers . 💕
From
Greg and Joan Renaud
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
Rosemary , We are so sorry for your loss. Tom was such a kind and gentle man. We have so many baseball memories that we will cherish forever. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, and your family. Greg & Joan Renaud
From
Rob Treverton
Date
Saturday, April 04, 2020
Message
I was very fortunate to work with Tom at Dan Kane Chevrolet. He was a great person and treated everyone with respect and kindness every day. He was a people person and the reason for his longevity in his working career. To Rosemary and the family our deepest condolences. He was so proud of his children and their accomplishments and must have been a great grandfather also to his precious grandchildren . Rest In Peace my friend. Rob and Jo-Anne Treverton
From
Your neighbours, Lisa and Dean Lefaive
Date
Friday, April 03, 2020
Message
Our deepest heartfelt condolences during this difficult time. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
From
Mike Roos
Date
Friday, April 03, 2020
Message
Deepest sympathies from the Roos family. Tom was truly a class guy and playing basketball with him for many years was a great experience. Tom was a rock and always in complete control. A fairly conservative guy, he led by example and was an inspiration for all of his teammates. Everybody liked and respected Tom and I know his passing has left a huge void in his entire families lives..
From
Niel Poli
Date
Friday, April 03, 2020
Message
A truly fine man....my most heartfelt condolences....Godspeed Murf......
From
Suzanne Hamil
Date
Friday, April 03, 2020
Message
So sorry to hear about your Dad, Erin! I remember him coming to all of our softball games - proud dad! Sending condolences to you and your family!
From
Meghan Gomes (Burston)
Date
Friday, April 03, 2020
Message
We are sending love from Ottawa to everyone in the Murphy family. I’m holding our camping trips, Christmas Eves, New Year’s Day brunches and so many more memories close to my heart today. Murf was one of a kind and we were lucky that he was such a big part of our lives.
From
Kenn Little
Date
Friday, April 03, 2020
Message
Mike, CB and family. So sorry to hear about your dad passing away. My thoughts are with all of you at this time. Kenn
From
Janis Snider
Date
Friday, April 03, 2020
Message
Dear Rosemary and Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. Cherish the memories. Hugs, Janis Dear Janice and Family, Thinking of you. Sending love and prayers. Hugs, Janis
From
Bruce Judy Welsh
Date
Friday, April 03, 2020
Message
We are so sad for all the "Murphy " family ..Our heartfelt condolences. Murph was a good friend, we shared so many camping vacations, with our family growing up, boating, Ranger lake...too many good times to list.
From
John & Karen Simone & family
Date
Friday, April 03, 2020
Message
Mike, Carri & family, So sorry to have read of your Dad's passing. May fond memories carry you through this difficult time. Thinking of you in your time of sorrow and sending our prayers and sincerest condolences.