Passed away April 19, 2012 at 71 years of age. Beloved husband of the late Joan (nee Butler) (2009). Dearest father of Mary Beth and husband Peter Scarfone, Patrick and wife Theresa, Bob and wife Julie, Bill and wife Margo, David and wife Andrea, Paul and wife Jennifer. Loving grandfather of Christopher, Ashley, Rachel, Trevor, Lauren, Madeline, Michael, Jennifer, Jessica, Matthew, Jeffrey, Ian, Noah, David, Ava, Abigail, Rebecca and Nicholas. Dear son of the late Norman and Bernadette Ray. Dear brother of Judy Boufford and the late Gregory Ray. If you so desire, donations to the Canadian Cancer Society would be appreciated. On Saturday, family and friends are invited to meet at Good Shepherd Parish, St. Gregory the Great Site, 13789 St. Gregory Rd. after 10 am followed by Mass at 10:30 am. Interment Heavenly Rest Cemetery. Arrangements entrusted to Families First 3260 Dougall Ave. South Windsor, 519-969-5841.