Passed away peacefully with his loving family by his side on June 17, 2012 at 45 years of age. Loving son of Yvonne Silk and Thomas Bates (Donna). Beloved brother of Marie (Gord) Wilder, Tim (Debbie) Bates and Tammy (Garry) Metcalfe. Dear boyfriend of Angel Lisqum. Tom will be sadly missed by many nieces, nephews, extended family and friends. If you so desire, donations to the Lung Association would be appreciated by the family. Visitation Friday 9:30am until time of service at 11am at Families First 3260 Dougall Ave. South Windsor, 519-969-5841. Procession Victoria Memorial Gardens.